That is the truth.
If someone you know is dying, you are not going to be at your best.
You may find yourself panicking orsinking into depression.
There may be regrets, sadness, and a loss for words.
And that’s okay.
It’s a hard experience, perhaps the hardest you’ll face.
Your thoughts are most likely in every place at once.
It’s important to know what you should and should not say to someone who is facing death.
You want to put their mind at ease and comfort them in their last moments.
But what do you say?
And what is better off not being said?
Talking about business when someone is dying could make you seem cold and unfeeling about this fact.
This is not the time to discuss finances and their funeral at least not solely.
This is especially true for matriarchs and patriarchs of the family.
Do your best to assure them that you love them and that you will live on for them.
As much as you may feel like breaking down at the moment, try your best to stay strong.
But it’s more than okay to cry.
In fact, it’s only natural that you do so.
After you’ve listened, tell them how much you love them and how much you’ll miss them.
Did they positively impact your life?
Let them know how.
Simply being there and showing your appreciation can be the best way to be supportive.
