Bachelorette parties are all about the bride-to-be celebrating her last bits of freedom before getting married.

That means making sure she has a good time and feels supported.

You don’t want the bride to be sorely disappointed with the choice of activity.

Group of women at bachelorette party

Yet weddings are known for bringing out some bad behavior and alcohol can cause loose lips.

Yet there are just some things you should never say at a bachelorette party.

So everything you do and say should embody that good intention.

Sad bride-to-be being comforted

That translates into not talking about her awful ex-boyfriend (viaWeddingWire).

It’s bad at any time but especially if her heart was broken over him.

No comparisons to her current fiance either, even if said in jest.

Bride posing with friends

Don’t tell her that she should go dance or hook up with some cute guy.

Keep any drama with any fellow attendees out of the party.

Another thing better left unsaid is your sad love story.

You don’t want to be the jealous bridesmaid, asGlamourreported.

Don’t bring negative energy to the party.

The focus should be on the bride, and no one else.

It’s a day to make good memories, not sit and stew in your own heartache.