By all accounts,Jill and Joe Bidenhave a healthy and happy marriage.

The couple has been together for almost45 years, so they must be doing something right.

The president has called his wife “the love of his life” (viaPeople).

Joe and Jill Biden walking by White House

That’s not to say that the Bidens' marriage has been conflict-free.

But just how the commander in chief and the first lady fight may surprise you.

Remember, she was divorced before meeting Joe Biden, having beenpreviously married to Bill Stevenson.

Jill and Joe Biden early in their marriage

Apparently she was not very pleased with her husband and sent a fext that raised the president’s eyebrows.

There will be a record of that.'"

The first lady added, “I won’t tell you what I called him that time.”

Joe Biden texting

One person even went so far as toclaimthis habit can’t equal a healthy relationship.

But our money is on the Bidens who will sooncelebrate their 45th wedding anniversary.