Just ask “Modern Family’s"Ariel Winter.

While growing up on television can be difficult, her family life off-screen has been equally problematic.

In fact, Winter toldThe Hollywood Reporterthat she often felt oversexualized because of her mother’s actions.

Ariel Winter smiling with green eye shadow

People thought I was 24 when I was 12.

She and her mom, however, remain estranged.

Workman had a message for her daughter: “It’s time to fix your relationship with your mom.

Ariel Winter

Every girl needs her mom and every mom needs her daughter.”

“I wear what I like and no one should fault me for that.”

She is also making her mental health a priority.

Ariel Winter

“For me, therapy is so important.

I never want to quit therapy.

I feel like people are never ‘cured’ [with] therapy.

It’s not a ‘cured’ thing, because you’re not going in sick.

You’re just going in,” according to an interview withTeen Vogue.

And as for her childhood, Winter says that despite the hardship, she wouldn’t change a thing.

“It made me who I am today,” Winter toldThe Hollywood Reporter.

Candidly sharing with the outlet, “I still respect the people that hurt me.”