She shared the top two that plague many couples and how to fix them fast.
This definition clearly doesn’t include the majority of non-CisHet couples.
“The majority of women don’t orgasm consistently from penetration alone.
It’s the norm not the exception,” she explains.
So how can couples solve this issue?
Working these into your foreplay repertoire both before and during penetration may boost the likelihood of having an orgasm.
This is because the desire for sex often needs to be cultivated; it doesn’t just occur spontaneously.
Well+Goodbreaks down desire into two main categories: spontaneous and responsive.
Unlike spontaneous desire, responsive desire involves physical arousal first,beforeit even registers in the mind.
And as O’Reilly explained, it can require intentional nurturing before it leads to sexy time.
This time together can build desire that, eventually, leads to the bedroom.
