Unfortunately, that’s not how it went for her.

When Li read all the responses, her first thought was that plus-size women deserve better.

Now, she’s using her platform to shed light on the ways the bridal industry excludes plus-size women.

Catie Li posing

But her first try-on wasn’t anything like that.

“Honestly, at my first try-on, I was crying,” Li admitted.

“My mom showed me pictures.

Catie Li wearing a wedding dress

She’s like, ‘I took pictures.

You don’t look very happy.’

They’re literally having to settle for the limited options that they have.

Catie Li posing in a wedding dress

‘Can I have better?’

She was painfully aware that she didn’t have the options that thinner brides had.

“We’re spending thousands of dollars,” Li pointed out.

“Some girls spend $10,000.

If I’m spending $10,000 on a dress, why do I have to imagine it on myself?

I want what everybody else has.

I want the opportunity to have what everybody else has.

I don’t understand it.

I don’t get it.”

Though the plus-size market is huge, no one seems to care about catering to plus-size brides.

“Nobody is talking about plus-size brides at all,” Li bluntly stated.

“It’s not even a conversation.”

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