Even though she’s widely known and recognized, she tends to keep her private life very private.

In addition to her thriving career, Kaling is also the mom of two children.

Her daughter Katherine Swati was born in 2017, perPeople.

Mindy Kaling smiling

Kaling shared that she gave birth to a son, Spencer on September 3, 2020.

However, thereal reason why Mindy Kaling won’t say who fathered her kidsmay go beyond simple privacy.

Kaling toldThe New York Timesthat it all comes down to a commitment she made to her daughter.

Mindy Kaling smiling

“I wasn’t ready.

I don’t think anyone is ever ready.

Though never married, Kaling is now revealing she may not see marriage in her future at all.

Mindy Kaling and B.J Novak looking

“That was a nice distraction from the pandemic.”

Kaling shared that she may stay single for the foreseeable future in an interview withGood Housekeeping.

Kaling used to date her “The Office” costar B.J.

Novak, who many have been speculated as being her children’s father.

But she says he is just a friend.

“I’m definitely not in the friends-with-my-exes camp.

has the stamp for life as a friend.

My mom loved him.

He feels like family.”

Still, Kaling feels self sufficient on her own, “I don’tneedmarriage.

“I can take care of them myself now.”