Let’s face it,married lifecan be tough.

It’s only natural that problems will arise over the course of your lives together.

One of the most common problems couples face is a lack of sex andintimacyin their relationship.

A couple’s feet in bed surrounded by red hearts

But is there really such a thing as “sexual incompatibility?”

Or is it just another obstacle to overcome in a marriage?

According toPsychology Today, identifying problems in a relationship can lead to a stronger, healthier marriage over time.

Couple stands back to back looking frustrated

There is no shame in seeking professional help, both individually and as a couple.

As more couples go to therapy, divorce rates are decreasing.

2019 reported the lowest record of divorces in 50 years, perInstitute for Family Studies.

Couple cuddles in bed

But differences in the bedroom can be difficult to address and leave both parties feeling vulnerable or unwanted.

When couples repeatedly cannot communicate and have difficulty coming to a compromise, the problem becomes perpetual.

What happens when you and your spouse just cannot agree?

A couple fights in bed, woman looks frustrated

Now there are some couples that just can’t come to a compromise when discussing theirsex life.

Gleim says these problems can happen, naming differences such as sexual orientation and extreme fetishes.

This will continue to be a perpetual problem that could indicate thatthe relationship is not healthy.

At that point, the couple may need to re-evaluate the relationship.

Spiritual coach Eliyahu Jian toldInsiderabout the importance of communicating your problems and your desires in the bedroom.