Hilaria and Alec Baldwinmet by accident at a New York restaurant in February 2011.

Hilaria toldThe New York Timesthat Alec approached her and said “‘I must know you.'”

Then he gave her his card, putting the ball in her court as to whether she would call.

Hilaria Baldwin smiling

Being a parent is the ultimate journey."

Hilaria had previously debated whether or not to do a gender revealwith this baby.

What will make them feel seen, free, and proud?"

The video starts with Alec saying “One characteristic doesn’t define you.”