We get it: not everyone’slove language is giving gifts.

If the stereotype is to be believed, most people have a rocky relationship with their mother-in-law.

There are only so many times she should hang up a “Live, Laugh, Love” sign.

Woman frowns at gift

Luckily we found a few gifts that scream thoughtfulness without straining your mind or your wallet.

While that sentiment can be… sweet, we can’t make that happen every year.

PerThe Strategist, a good rule for gift giving in general is to try and incorporate something personal.

Mom defends son from his wife, awkward dinner

What is something that they will actually use, or enjoy displaying?

Are they the kind of person that never treats themselves to anything nice and could use a little splurging?

Answering these questions will get you one step closer to a thoughtful and appreciated gift.

Mom and daughter smile holding gifts

You may think a gift card is the ideal gift, but it can come off as impersonal.