“When I don’t backtrack, then they want to get in a power struggle with me.”

“I know what my power is my power is I’m here.

This is my chair.

Tracy McMillan smiling

“They’re used to being able to intimidate somebody, and I’m notable in that way.

I have a chair and a camera.

It’s my show,” McMillan shared.

Tracy McMillan speaking

“I can actually withstand that attempt to push me off.”

“But I’m not maintaining any relationships past day three, so I can be in my center …

This happens with women [and other] people on the show too.

Tracy McMillan smiling

They’ve never had someone not cave, and it’s a great experience for them.”

New episodes of “Family or Fiance” air Saturdays at 9:00 p.m. EST on OWN.