That dilemma became the focus ofNetflix’s new reality dating show, “The Ultimatum.”

Imari explained that she believed Griffin’s proposal was sincere and had been everything she wanted at the time.

But once the “Ultimatum” cameras stopped rolling, reality set in.

Shanique Imari and Randall Griffin from “The Ultimatum” after getting engaged

And that was the hardest time of my life, for real."

In ourexclusive interviewwith Imari, she told us she now sees romantic relationships differently.

As for more ultimatums in the future?

Shanique Imari and Randall Griffin at the “The Ultimatum” reunion

Imari says she’s done issuing ultimatums at least for now.

Shanique Imari and Randall Griffin smiling on “The Ultimatum”